An emotional intelligence expert, James Kwesi Addison, is urging families to prioritise the well-being and growth of children when dealing with DNA test outcomes.
Speaking on Atinka TV’s Ghana Nie – Lifestyle Segment hosted by Ama Gyenfa Ofosu-Darkwa and Ekow Budu Sam, Mr. Addison stressed that while DNA results can be emotionally disruptive, the child must remain the central focus in resolving disputes.
He explained that grief in such situations goes beyond death and includes the loss of trust and expectations within relationships. According to him, scientific advancements like DNA testing are exposing truths that were once hidden, often leading to emotional distress for both men and women.
Mr. Addison noted that many individuals approach DNA testing with fear, adding that some men even avoid it due to anxieties about possible outcomes.
He said the aftermath of DNA results can be difficult to manage. Even when results confirm paternity, men may still struggle with trust issues, while adverse results require honesty, remorse, and accountability—especially from the woman—to help rebuild trust.
The expert advised individuals to mentally prepare for any outcome before taking a DNA test, stressing that it should be approached with the same seriousness as an HIV test.
He further cautioned against making DNA results public, describing it as a common mistake that can worsen emotional harm. Instead, he recommended opening results in a calm and controlled environment, preferably in the presence of a trained counselor.
Mr. Addison also advised against relying solely on pastors for guidance, noting that they are not professional counselors and may unintentionally escalate tensions.
He concluded that DNA outcomes are not the end of life but must be handled with emotional intelligence, discretion, and a strong focus on the child’s future.
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