More often than not guys in particular feel that ladies who do not want to talk about their boyfriends or their relationship in general are cheats, but this is always not the case. When you really get close to that person, you will definitely see reasons why she will not disclose her ‘boyfriend’ to you.
Here are some possible reasons why a lady will never talk to a guy about her boyfriend or her relationship.
- Most ladies usually want to keep their relationships as private as possible. We all got that one friend who will never want to share her relationship status with her friends not even the name of her boyfriend. Yeah, it is that serious.
- A lady facing challenges in her current relationship will not want to discuss her boyfriend or her relationship to any guy that comes close. Every ‘new guy’ is a potential boy, no lady would want to miss that opportunity especially where there is evidence of a possible heartbreak. NO WAY!!!!
- Likeness can also be a major reason why a lady will never talk to you about her boyfriend. It is not wrong to ‘like’ someone, and like how guys admire ladies, it is the same way that ladies also admire guys. For instance, if a lady is crushing on a guy, so to speak, and fortunately that guy approaches the lady, there is no way she is going to tell him about her boyfriend, HELL NO!!. In such a situation, her boyfriend has got no business in there.
- The fear of losing a much cherished friendship will be a reason for a lady not disclosing her relationship to a guy. We all have that ‘close opposite sex friend’ that we talk to when we have problems in our relationships. We tend to develop strong relationship ties with such people, not necessarily sexual, and so disclosing your relationship status to him will be ‘Some way bi’. Some things are better off unsaid.
- Most ladies in “long distance relationships do not want to talk to guys about their boyfriends. It’s more of ‘I don’t know what he is doing over there’ and hence when a guy approaches her, it will be very difficult for her to talk about her boyfriend to that guy.
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