Condoms are one of the most popular and accessible forms of birth control. They are known to protect against both pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections, making them a go-to choice for many couples. But here’s the truth: condoms are not 100% foolproof. Even when you use one, pregnancy can still happen, and most of the time, it comes down to simple human and non-human mistakes.
WHY CONDOMS DON’T ALWAYS WORK
- Putting It on the Wrong Way
Using a condom incorrectly, whether inside out, not rolled down fully, or worn halfway through sex, reduces its protection. Even minor mistakes can allow sperm to pass through. For example, if it’s first put on inside out and then flipped over, its effectiveness is already compromised!.
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- Storing it in the Wallet or pocket for too long
A condom might seem safe tucked into your wallet or pocket, but constant heat, pressure, and friction slowly damage the material. By the time you use it, it may already be weak and more likely to tear. The hot temperature does not always help.
- Ignoring the Expiry Date
“Yes, condoms expire! Just like food or medicine, they don’t last forever. An expired condom becomes dry, brittle, and less stretchy, which makes it far more likely to tear during sex. Unfortunately, many people skip this tiny detail and only realize the risk when it’s too late. Taking a few seconds to check the date on the wrapper before opening could be the difference between safe protection and an unexpected pregnancy.”
- Using Two at Once
Definitely not a good idea because you might think doubling up offers extra protection, but the opposite is true. The friction between two condoms creates more chances for tearing. One good condom used correctly is far safer than two used together.
Choosing the Wrong Size
A condom that’s too tight can snap in the heat of the moment, while one that’s too loose risks slipping off altogether. Either way, the protection you’re counting on won’t be at its best. The right fit, however, gives you not just safety but also comfort and confidence. Just like shoes or clothes, condoms come in different sizes. Taking a moment to know your size isn’t about vanity—it’s about responsibility. Pay attention to size, because when it comes to protection, comfort, and pleasure, the fit makes all the difference.
The Bottom Line
Condoms are highly effective when used properly, up to 98% effective with perfect use. But with common mistakes, the effectiveness drops to around 85%, meaning about 15 out of every 100 couples may experience an unintended pregnancy each year.
So, the next time you reach for a condom, remember: the way you use it is just as important as the fact that you use it. Store it correctly, check the date, wear it properly, and pick the right size, because smart use equals safer protection.
By Emmanuella Antwi